Chapter 68: Murder in Amish Country-The Murder of Barbara Weaver

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Hi guys. I'm Courtney and I'm
Lisa, and welcome to the next chapter

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in the Book of the Dead,
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Podcasts with a Twist. Hello,
Hello, Welcome to another chapter. Lisa

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is not with me today. She
is prepping for a Christmas party, so

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it's just gonna be me. But
that's okay. Today's chapter is going to

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be on like one we've done before
in the sense that it deals with a

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topic that we've never covered, and
that topic is the Amish. So before

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we jump in, I'm going to
give you a general background of the Amish,

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although I think most of you will
have some semblance of an idea of

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what Amish is. So according to
Amishbaskets dot Com, the first Amish people

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came to North America from Germany in
the seventeen hundreds, and they were members

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of a strict Mennonite sect led by
Jakob Aman, which is where the word

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Amish is derived. The common misconception
is that the Amish is a cult or

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a religion, but they're actually a
strictly devout sect of Christianity. Now,

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Amish law forbids violence in any form
and anything that promotes aggression like sports.

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They also strictly forbid against military service, so they are seen as pacifists and

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they prefer to forgive acts of violence, and because of this, there is

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rarely any punishment seen in response to
violence. And they believe in responding to

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injustice by doing good, and they
strive for harmony in everything they do.

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Modesty is incredibly important to them,
which is why most people in Amish communities

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are usually dressed in simple clothing,
in muted colors or in only black and

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white, and they don't take pictures
to avoid promoting ideas of vanity. They

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live traditionally and earn their money by
farming, carpentry, basket making, and

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things like that. Their primary form
of travel is by horse and buggy,

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and most members of the Amish community
don't use electricity, they don't have phones,

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and they don't use the internet.
They have strict rules around courting,

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and the Amish is broken up into
four main groups, with separate subgroups branching

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off of them. Typically, when
someone hears the word Amish, the group

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that naturally comes to mind is Old
World Amish. They are the most strict

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in their values and rules, and
while again not a cult. This strictness

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is why people believe the Amish community
is one. While one is free to

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leave the Amish us community, it
depends on a lot of factors whether or

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not the person will be allowed back, and their biggest form of punishment is

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called shunning, which means other members
of the community will completely avoid the person

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being shunned. Quote. This occurs
when a member willfully violates Ordnung and is

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out of concern for the well being
of the individual as well as to protect

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the flock. And Ordnung is the
order, the order of things, how

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they do things, the rules by
which they live by. The next group

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is New Order Amish, and they
are a bit more progressive. They allow

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more modern farming technology, telephones in
the home, and some other forms of

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technology, although the Internet, automobiles, television, and radio is still all

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prohibited. They also allow Sunday school
and missionary work in more brightly colored clothes.

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Then there is Beechy Amish Mennonite,
and they are very different from the

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other two groups. They don't require
private worship, they have meeting houses,

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Sunday school and Bible school. They
don't require anyone to speak German, and

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they allow cars and filtered internet use. They also support missionary work and they

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don't practice social shunning. They still
prohibit television, though and radio, and

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women still have to cover their heads
and married men must have a beard like

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in the former groups. Finally,
there is Amish Mennonites. Although they have

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dropped Amish from their name to separate
themselves from the old world and its traditions.

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They still have a heavy emphasis in
faith in doing good, but they

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are more lax in how men dress
and style their beards, and they allow

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the use of cars and electricity in
the home. Now, this is just

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a very general overview of the Amish
and the culture, but I wanted there

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to be a better understanding of what
being Amish means. I also wanted to

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emphasize the fact that violent crime is
not something that is often seen in Amish

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communities, which makes this case such
a big deal. This is the murder

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of Barbara Weaver. Barbara Weaver was
born on February second, nineteen seventy nine,

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in Apple Creek, Ohio, and, according to a neighbor, Mary

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Aiker, who was a Mennonite taxi
driver for the Amish and would provide rides

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for those in the community, if
they needed to travel farther distances or pick

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up items they needed. Said Barbara
was quote a very friendly, sociable person.

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She was kind of laid back,
but super nice, a gentle soul.

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In May of nineteen ninety nine,
Barbara Mary's an Amish man named Eli

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Weaver, and they go on to
have five children together. The Weavers are

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part of a subgroup of Old World
Amish called Andy Weaver Amish, and this

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group was very conservative. According to
A and E. They didn't allow computers,

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the Internet, or cell phones,
and the Amish also in general,

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does not believe in divorce. Divorce
is not accepted at all, and if

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a couple did pursue divorce, it
would usually immediately lead to excommunication from the

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community, which will be important later. Now. By the time Barbara was

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thirty, the Weavers were married for
ten years, and in the beginning it

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seemed like they had a good marriage
and they were happy. Eli owned a

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successful hunting store and he was described
as very outgoing. Mary Aikers said quote,

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he would often come over fairly late
in the evening and ask for a

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ride, and he was very considerate. He would apologize for interrupting me.

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He had charm. However, the
Weavers started to have problems and it seemed

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like Eli started changing in a way
that really upset Barbara. According to The

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New York Post, in a letter
that Barbara wrote to a counselor, she

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said, quote, where did my
friend, love, trustworthy husband go?

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He hates me to the core?
And Eli had changed twice. He had

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left his family to live the English
way of life, but had returned both

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times begging for forgiveness, which was
accepted, and he was welcomed back into

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his family and the community. Rebecca
Morris, the author of a Killing,

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an Amish Country, sex Betrayal and
A Cold Blooded Murder, said Eli found

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that life outside was hard. He
had to figure out how to make a

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living. I think he wasn't mature
enough to handle life and responsibilities and marriage,

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and he had no conscience. Clearly
he was also withholding money from his

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wife. Barbara's sister, Fanny Troyer, said that Eli wouldn't give his wife

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money to care for their children,
even though his business was doing well.

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An Amish friend said that Barbara had
been humiliated when Eli refused to provide her

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with money to buy ingredients for pies
she needed to bake for church, and

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Mary Aiker said that he wouldn't even
provide her money to go to the doctor.

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This Mary found out when she had
given permission for Barbara to use her

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phone number as a point of contact
for the doctor, and Mary overheard Barbara

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telling the doctor or more likely the
receptionist, that she would pay the bill

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as soon as possible. So clearly
there's starting to be this disconnect in the

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Weaver marriage. Eli is becoming controlling. He's not giving Barbara money for things

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that she needs money for. And
you know, in the Amish way of

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life, it's very traditional in this
sense that men and women own their traditional

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roles. The man is the provider, he's the worker, and the women

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stay home, they take care of
the children, they cook, they bake,

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that kind of thing. So there's
obviously some discourse in their relationship now,

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and Barbara is confused because this is
not the man that she thought she

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married. You know, in the
beginning of their relationship, Eli wasn't like

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that, yes, and you could
shock it up to immaturity that Eli wasn't

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ready for marriage when he got married. But the fact of the matter is

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is that he is married and he
has certain responsibilities to his wife and his

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family that he's not doing. There
was also allegations of abuse that were witnessed

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by the Weaver children of Eli shoving
Barbara and grabbing her. But again in

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the Amish community, there was nothing
Barbara could do. According to the Post,

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an Amish leader said that if she
reported this behavior, she would have

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been asked, quote, what did
you do that your husband would treat you

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like that? Which is interesting to
me, at least considering the Amish don't

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believe in violence, it's interesting that
that would have been the response to any

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acts of violence performed by Eli.
Now, this was only the beginning of

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the crack surfacing in the Weaver's marriage, and it would eventually come to a

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head. Not only was Eli clearly, as I said, controlling and allegedly

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abusive towards Barbara, he was also
actively seeking out women to sleep with.

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Now. One of the rules of
his community was that cell phones were forbidden,

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but Eli had a cell phone,
and with this phone, he was

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an active member of different social sites, one of which was moco space,

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where he went by the screen name
Amish stud Now. According to how Stuff

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Works, mocospace is a social networking
site similar to Facebook or MySpace, but

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it is specifically designed to primarily be
used through a mobile device. When you

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set up an account, you can
set your name, age, sexual preferences,

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your relationship status, and post pictures
and customize your profile and moco Space

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also includes chat rooms where you can
speak with other members and use forums and

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run classified ads, so it's a
little bit more involved than other social media

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sites. And Eli was using it
to find women to meet for the purpose

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of sex. And there was no
denying what Eli was using this for because

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his bio on this site said,
quote who wants to do an Amish guy.

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According to oxygen dot Com, Barbara
eventually came to find out about these

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affairs, but she also knew she
couldn't divorce Eli due to Amish law.

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According to Rebecca Morris, Barbara quote
told a friend she wasn't afraid of Eli,

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but she was afraid of Eli's girlfriends, and that somebody would be so

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jealous and wanting Eli so much they
would harm Barbara. And according to a

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blog post written by Jim Fisher,
the leaders of the community were also aware

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of these affairs with English women and
he would be thrown out of the community.

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More than once, but they always
welcomed him back when he repented.

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Everyone knows that Eli is unfaithful to
his wife, he's having extramarital affairs,

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and the general consensus is, well, Barbara, there's nothing you can do

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about it. You're stuck with him
because if you leave him, you're out

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of the community. And when it
came to Eli, every time they kicked

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him out, it was well,
I'm sorry, and they let him back

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in. So I think it was
just handled poorly by the people that should

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have been there to help in some
way, meaning the leaders of the community.

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Because Barbara's clearly stuck. There's not
a lot she can do because they

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won't allow her to get a divorce. If Eli is aggressive towards her,

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violent towards her in any ways,
well what did you do to deserve it?

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And Eli clearly has some sort of
addiction to sex. I mean,

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I'm not a doctor. I can't
diagnose him with anything, but this man's

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going out and having affairs with all
sorts of women, looking for women to

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sleep with. You know, clearly
he has a problem. And the consensus

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is will get out and all he
has to do is say he's sorry and

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they let him back in. So
it just it's created this situation for Barbara

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where she can't really do anything,
and she's now fearful that potentially one of

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Eli's many flings can come and harm
her because they want Eli for himself,

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which is not a situation that anyone
should be in now. In two thousand

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and three, Eli enters into a
relationship with a woman named Barbara Raper,

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who was ten years Eli's senior.
At this time, Eli was twenty three

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and Raber was thirty three. According
to Oxygen, Raber was a man in

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a taxi driver who drove the Amish
in the community around when they had to

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go far distances, just like Mary
Iiger. She was also a married mother

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of three. Eli and Raber would
go on to have a sexual relationship that

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went on for close to six years, and it was by two thousand and

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eight that Eli really started to complain
about his marriage. According to All That's

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Interesting, Eli started talking to people
about killing his wife in the fall of

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two thousand and eight, but no
one was taking him seriously, that is,

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except for Raber. According to Eli, Raber took the idea of murdering

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Barbara and quote ran with it.
Over the course of the next few months,

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Raber performed over eight hundred and forty
internet searches for poisoning gases and quote

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ways to get rid of someone,
according to the Daily Record, and she

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and Eli debated on different methods of
killing Barbara. At around seven am on

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June second, two thousand and nine, one of the Weaver children ran to

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the neighbor's house yelling for help.
At that point, Eli was fishing with

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friends on Lake Erie, so he
wasn't home now. The neighbor runs to

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the Weaver's home with the young boy, and in the bedroom, under blood

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soaked covers, was the body of
Barbara Weaver, dead from a gunshot wound

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to the chest, according to that
post by Jim Fisher. At eleven thirty

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am, Wayne County Coroner doctor Amy
Joliff pronounces Barbara dead at the scene,

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and doctor Lisa Kohler, the Summit
County Chief Medical Examiner, performs the autopsy

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and confirms the cause of death was
a gunshot wound to the right side of

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Barbara's chest. The time of death
was estimated to be between twelve and three

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am, and the time of death
was confirmed by Jolf to be an estimate

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and the murder could have happened anywhere
from twelve to seven am, according to

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the Daily Record. Now, on
Barbara's death certificate, they did list time

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of death as being two AM,
and Joliffe did clarify that the only reason

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they put in exact time was because
the death certificate required in a exact time

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of death, not an estimate.
But they believed that she could have been

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dead anywhere from twelve to seven It
could have happened anytime within that window.

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So I just wanted to make that
clear because there's a bunch of different times

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that I just said, and the
only reason that there was ever an exact

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time even given was again because the
death certificate required one. Now, a

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firearms expert with the Ohio Bureau of
Criminal Investigation identified the recovered shotgun pellets as

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most likely belonging to a four to
ten gage shotgun. So they have a

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description of the weapon. Now they
need to find the weapon. Detectives with

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the Wayne County Sheriff's Department then sees
two shotguns matching the description of the murder

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weapon from Eli's hunting shop and recover
a box of matching AMMO from the Weaver's

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home with one shell missing. They
also find some sitting out, which led

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them to believe that this was not
a robbery gone wrong. It's also worth

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mentioning that they didn't find any fingerprints
except for those belonging to the Weaver family,

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and they never found the actual murder
weapon. They found weapons that could

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have been the murder weapon or match
the description of the murder weapon, but

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nothing that they were able to definitively
say was the gun used to murder Barbara.

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So then Eli comes home and the
police question him. Now, Eli

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denies any and all involvement in his
wife's murder, and according to Eli's friend

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David Yoda, they loved to go
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the second According to all that's interesting. While Eli had an alibi, he

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definitely wasn't home from three am on. Friends and neighbors of the Weavers pointed

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police in the direction of Raber,
who did not have an alibi for the

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night of the murder, now spoke
to her. She admitted to having the

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affair with Eli, but she told
police that it had actually ended six months

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prior and she was home with her
husband on the night of the murder.

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Then someone very interesting came forward,
a woman by the name of Dandy Heasley

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contacted police and told them about the
relationship she had had with Eli. She

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also told them about how they had
met on the internet and about Eli's secret

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phone. She also told police about
the comments he had made about Barbara and

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how he was unhappy in his marriage
and suggested that he wanted to know how

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to kill someone and get rid of
his wife for good. Then other women

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started coming forward with the exact same
story, so police really want to find

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this phone. According to oxygen dot
Com, Dandy makes a new profile on

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a dating site and sends Eli a
message asking for him to call her,

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and he does so. Now police
have Eli's phone number, and with this

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they can start looking into his text
and call records, and these records tell

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quite a story. First of all, the phone is registered under Raber's name,

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and once they get the phone records, police learn that Raper lied about

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their relationship ending. Not only did
the phone log prove that they were very

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much still a couple, but it
showed messages between the two discussing the murder

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of Barbara Weaver. According to All
That's interesting, some of the messages read

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quote, I thought if we could
get that fly poison stuff in a spice

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cupcake. She might not detect it, and that was from Raber. Eli

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responds with, quote, maybe you
could blow up the house. Raber says,

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quote what about your children, and
Eli responds with, quote, they'll

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go to heaven because they're innocent.
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kids died in the process of killing
his lid wife, well they're just collateral

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damage. On June tenth, both
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and charged with aggravated murder. According
to court records, and this will be

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important later. Raber is arrested outside
her home in the early hours of the

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morning of June tenth. She has
read her Miranda rights and she asked for

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counsel now. When Detective John Chewey
asks if she wants a lawyer, she

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says no. She is brought to
the Wayne County Sheriff's office, where she

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confesses to killing Barbara, but she
refuses to write a written statement. The

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next day, she is interrogated to
clarify some of the details of the crime,

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where she asserts her right to counsel
and the interrogation is stopped. Now

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in her confession According to the Post, Raper said that Barbara's death was an

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accident. She just meant to scare
her. She said she took the gun

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from her husband's gun cabinet and arrived
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She went in through the basement door
and went to the bedroom. She said,

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quote, I never intended for anything
to happen, but when it did,

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it was like, oh crap.
However, Raber later recanted this confession

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and claimed she had no memory of
going to the Weaver home. According to

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A and E, on August seventeenth, Eli agreed to plead guilty to conspiracy

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to commit murder in exchange for his
testimony against Raper, and he was sentenced

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to fifteen years in prison. Raber
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thousand and nine. Now, unfortunately
for Raber and her trial, she did

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a lot of talking to her cellmate
in jail while waiting for the court proceedings

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to begin, and her cellmate was
called to testify. Dina Unengst, Braver's

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cellmate, told the court how Raber
purchased a four to ten gage shotgun,

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which again is the gun determined to
most likely be the murder weapon, although

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they never found it. After Eli
had consistently told her he didn't love his

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wife and wanted her dead. She
also allegedly asked Dina if she knew how

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long fingerprints would last on a gun, and Larry Miller, the owner of

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a local gun store, testified that
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in November of two thousand and eight. Then Eli takes the stand. Eli

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claimed that Raber took the idea of
killing his wife and ran with it,

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and had even given him pills to
poison his wife at one point, which

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he backed out of doing. He
then said how on the day before the

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murder, he informed Raber that he
would be leaving to go fishing at three

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am, to which Raber, according
to court documents, said that that would

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be the perfect time to kill Barbara
as Eli would not be home. So

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Eli said he would leave the basement
door unlocked for her, and at three

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twenty five the next morning, Raber
texted e Eli, saying she was scared

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and asking where he was, to
which he replied that he was in Wooster

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fishing and to make sure she didn't
leave any evidence behind. He then went

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on to say that they had a
conversation in his barn the day before their

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arrest, where Raber told him what
happened the day of the murder and apologized

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for everything. Eli then said that
Raber asked him how to clean a gun

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so it would look as if it
hadn't been fired. Additionally, Eli testified

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that after the murder, Raber suggested
they change their phone numbers so they wouldn't

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be traced, and she had actually
had Eli's number changed, according to these

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court records. A David Weaver,
not related to Eli, said that he

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had been asked by Rape to leave
a voicemail for Eli that said quote,

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Eli, you can run, but
you can't hide. Obviously we got the

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wrong person last night. Now.
I'm assuming this voicemail was left to try

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and throw police off off of maybe
her trail, Eli's trail, But it

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clearly didn't work because they got to
Eli and Raber anyway. But she got

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someone else involved in this plot by
leaving the message. Although he was not

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charged with anything, David Weaver and
I believe that was in exchange for testifying

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that she had asked him to do
this. They weren't going to charge him

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with anything. It was also discovered
that Raber had access to another four to

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ten gate shotgun once she had borrowed
from a friend a few years before that

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she had never returned. So not
only did she have access to the four

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ten gate shotguns through Eli's store,
she purchased one a few months prior,

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and she borrowed one years prior that
she never gave back. Now again,

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they ever found the murder weapon,
so I don't know what she did with

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them. No one knows what she
did with either the gun she purchased or

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the gun she borrowed. They I
guess, never found them, or if

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they did find them, they weren't
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so it's interesting that they went to
trial anyway. Technically is circumstantial.

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You know, she had access to
these guns. She had purchased a gun,

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she had borrowed a gun, but
they never found the gun, so

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it's circumstantial she could have used one
of these guns to kill Barbara. Now,

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even though the defense did what they
could to try and prove that Eli

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was really the one to kill Barbara, the jury ultimately found Raybor guilty of

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aggravated murder and she was sentenced to
twenty three years to life, with the

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eligibility of parole in twenty thirty two. Now, Barbara did appeal the conviction

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in twenty ten, and the basis
for the appeal was that she felt her

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testimony to police should be thrown out
because she didn't have a lawyer present when

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she confessed. However, if you
remember, she initially waived her right to

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counsel and when she asserted that right, the interrogation was stopped, so this

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was dismissed. She also said that
the text messages and computer records should be

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thrown out, but there was no
basis for that, so that was thrown

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out as well, and her appeal
was denied. In the end, Barbara

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Weaver lost her life because her husband
would rather she be dead than be looked

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down upon by his community, and
the Weaver children lost both their parents.

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Now they were taken in by Barbara's
sister and according to Mary Eiger, they

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are doing well but want nothing to
do with their father, which I fully

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understand. And Eli's parents have also
allegedly washed their hands of him, and

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he used to be shunned by his
community upon his eventual release, which could

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potentially be next month because that is
when he is eligible for per So this

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case was very sad in the sense
that Barbara Weaver by all accounts, and

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unfortunately there's very little information about her
because of the community in which she was

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a part of, you know,
not believing in photographs and technology and things

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like that. There's no physical idea
of who she was, what she looked

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like, you know, it's just
the reports that she was a very kind,

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loving woman and she was unfortunately stuck
in a marriage with a man that

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didn't love her. Wanted to be
free to sleep with who he wanted and

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do the things he wanted to do, couldn't commit to whether or not he

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wanted to live the English way of
life or lived the Amish way of life,

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and instead traded his wife terribly and
got involved with the woman that decided

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she would kill for him. And
this was really because, at least according

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to court records and attorneys that because
Amish is against divorce, Eli figured that

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if he pursued a divorce, he
would be shunned, but if Barbara died,

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he would essentially be patted on the
back, like, you know,

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I'm so sorry for you. Your
wife died. You're a widower, now

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I'm so sorry. You know,
you have to raise these children by yourself.

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So that was essentially the motive.
I mean, you could argue,

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because the time of death was between
twelve and seven, that Eli could have

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killed Barbara himself, but I don't
think he did. It seems based on

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what Barbara said or what Raber said, that she did it. Now she

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took it back. You know,
it could be that she was covering for

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him, but I don't think that's
the case. I think Eli said that

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she want that he wanted his wife
to be dead, and Raber said,

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I'll do this for you. It's
sad, and unfortunately he got I don't

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think he got enough time because he
took the plea deal and he got only

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fifteen years. He could be released
next next month, and yeah, he

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will be shunned by his community,
but he just gets to go on with

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his life. And Barbara's life was
taken from her. That was the murder

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of Barbara Weaver. A very sad
story, one that's again a little bit

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different than the ones we've covered.
The first one in Amish Country and that's

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about it. Lisa should be back
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